Gender Parity: Let's get real a bit
"No o, oko mi, sit down, your sister will clear the table" or "No o, Jide, you shouldn't be doing that, it's a girl's duty" or "Jumoke! Why is your brother doing the dishes?" or "Amaka, is that how you'll be cooking in your husband's house?" or "Ah ah! Funke, you knew Akin won't sweep this place well, why didn't you sweep it?" or "Let all the women join us in the kitchen, while the men talk business." You know who's talking in all these instances? The mothers ! And that's where it starts from. Personally, I don't see how we can close the gender gap faster before 135 years from now - as predicted by the World Economic Forum - if we don't handle gender parity from the root - the home ! The examples I mentioned above lead to what is called "Conditioning." That's the problem! We have attached roles to genders conditioning the thoughts of both sexes that this and t...